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May 16, 2006

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how about my case?

The mother denied that I was the father twice, once before birth and once after. She then lived with her long-standing boyfriend and moved to another state. After that they moved to Lawrenceburg. The child was raised for ten years as the child of her boyfriend whom she married in 2003. She and he have run into hard times and even though she knew where I was this entire time, she now is filing for future and back child support plus she had a medical card and the Cabinet wants all past medical bills, child care, etc. She is on record admitting to denying paternity to me. We were only together one time, extremely intimate, but no penetration. I believe there is no doubt that since she committed this fraud and he went along, they have no right to future or past child support. See cases Ramirez vs Comm., Calfee vs. Cabinet, and others. Anyone have an opinion?

The Ct. of Appeals, in S.R.D. v. T.L.B., 174 S.W.3d 502 (Ky. App., 2005) discuss the theory of paternity by estoppel. I think the "best" chance (absent a new statute) is to argue that if a court can force a father from denying (when he is not the biological father) to get out of child support why can’t the mother be estopped from denying paternity (or “legal” paternity) of the only father the child has known for 8 years.

The court set out the factors of the doctrine of equitable estoppel: “(1) Conduct, including acts, language and silence, amounting to a representation or concealment of material facts; (2) the estopped party is aware of these facts; (3) these facts are unknown to the other party; (4) the estopped party must act with the intention or expectation his conduct will be acted upon; and (5) the other party in fact relied on this conduct to his detriment.”

1) Mom’s conduct concealed the fact
2) Mom was aware he was not the biological father
3) Neither Junior nor Dad knew the truth
4) Mom knew that Dad would act upon this lie
5) Both Junior and Dad relied on the lie to their detriment (both emotional and financial)

i strongly agree with your position. a statutory amendment would be a helpful tool for attorneys facing the situation of a vindictive mom such as your hypothetical mary who would be willing to traumatize her own child. recently discovered your blog and it is terrific.

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